Our Story

Our mission

To help parents navigating high-conflict separation and divorce communicate with clarity, protect their peace, and keep their children at the centre, because no one should have to face this alone.

Where we started

Reply Right was founded in 2026 by a divorced mother and a divorced father, based in Ireland. Between us, we have navigated two high-conflict divorces: one domestic, one international.

What we know

We know what it feels like to lie awake at 3am, stressed about handovers and the impact of separation on the children. We know the fear that sits in your chest every time the children come home dysregulated, confused by what they have been told, and in ways you can see but they can't explain, crying, angry, or swinging between emotions, carrying something too heavy for someone their age.

We know the financial pressure of solicitor bills that arrive faster than resolutions. We know the panic when a message from your high-conflict ex lands in your inbox and torpedoes your entire day. We know the feeling of someone asking how you are and saying "fine", when fine is the furthest thing from the truth.

Most of all, we know what it is to love your children so completely, and feel so powerless to protect them from the fallout of something they did not choose.

What we did

We did not come from the same situation but we arrived at the same place: exhausted, determined, and absolutely certain that there had to be a better way. So we helped each other. We worked through the difficult messages together, figuring out how to respond calmly when every instinct was telling us to react. We talked about how to build resilience in ourselves and in our children. How to stop being defined by the other parent's chaos and start building something better. An alternative path forward, for our families, and for how we showed up in the eyes of the court and the assessors.

What we built

There was not a tool that did what we needed. So we built one.

Reply Right helps you communicate clearly and calmly with your co-parent, courts, child assessors, GALs, solicitors, schools, and your children. And when it really counts, our Case Builder turns your conversation history into a structured, court-ready record you can actually use.

It was not designed in a boardroom. It was designed at our kitchen table, over many late night conversations when the children were in bed. Built by people who had been through it and were still walking the path. Every feature exists because we needed it ourselves. Every piece of guidance has been tested against the reality of high-conflict communication, not a textbook version of it.

Why we built it for you

We cannot control the other parent, their responses, their behaviour, or their choices. What we can control is how we show up. How we respond. How we communicate. We can protect our peace. We can communicate in a way that serves our children, builds our record, and keeps us standing when it gets hard.

And it is not just the other parent. It is the court hearing you are terrified of. The assessor's interview you're dreading, and the report that may not tell the full story. The GAL whose report will shape your child's future, and who needs to understand what your child's life really looks like, however daunting that conversation feels. The solicitor's inbox you cannot afford to fill with panic. The school that needs to understand what your child is going through. And most of all, the children themselves, who need the right words from you, at the right moment, more than anyone.

That is what Reply Right does. We built it for you, because we have been where you are, we are still walking this path alongside you, and you deserve better than surviving this alone.

We got this. ✊

Our values